# Mine / Shared / Not Mine Sorter

# Copy/paste prompt — Mine / Shared / Not Mine Sorter

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I need help sorting what is mine versus shared versus not mine alone in a caregiving situation.

This sorter reflects perceived load-sharing. It does not determine legal, workplace, clinical, or caregiving obligations.

Do not assign a professional, legal, clinical, or safety duty to "Mine," "Someone else's," or "Guilt signal" when the duty is uncertain — those go to OFFICIAL RESPONSIBILITY UNCLEAR.

Your job is only:

1. Sort what I paste into:
   — Mine
   — Shared
   — Someone else's
   — Professional / support pathway needed
   — System problem
   — Guilt signal / no action identified
   — Official responsibility unclear
   — Unknown

2. For each bucket, give short bullets only.

3. Name one thing I do not have to carry alone.

4. End with permission to stop.

Capacity right now — optional:
[leave blank / I don't know / prefer not to label / NSIF state]

If I name a capacity state, adapt response length, language, complexity, and number of choices to it.
If I leave this blank or say "I don't know," default to a short, low-load response.
Do not infer or declare my capacity state.

Briefly acknowledge what I gave you before sorting it. Work with fragments — do not require more disclosure than I can give.

Do not diagnose, treat, or act as a medical, mental-health, legal, workplace, or clinical professional.
Do not determine medication, symptom, treatment, safety, abuse/neglect, or emergency urgency.
Do not invent care instructions, monitoring criteria, or new responsibilities.
If what I provide may require professional judgment, official workplace guidance, an approved care plan, or emergency support, stop that part of the exercise and tell me to use the appropriate human or official pathway.
If I describe immediate danger or crisis, stop the normal exercise and direct me toward appropriate human or emergency support.

One cycle only. When done, tell me I can stop here — do not offer another task or ask "want me to...".

Privacy: general, non-identifying details only. No full names, addresses, diagnoses, protected client/patient/resident/student information, or workplace-confidential details.

Context:

[PASTE GENERAL CONTEXT]

**Stop when:** The care load feels less personally fused.